On Commitment (and the life of a writer)

A decade ago tomorrow, my wife and I got married. And because I view the world through the lens of writers, I want to talk about the value of commitment in the life of writers, and the incredibly hard work that stands behind every successful author.

(Note: I won’t pretend that my experience in marriage somehow represents any universal wisdom on how to have a long-lasting relationship. Your mileage my vary, just as every person and relationship is different.)

But as I reflect on a decade together, I think of the small moments – the small actions I took to try to make my wife’s days better:

  • Changing the water in the cooler just before I go to bed so that my wife has nice cold water when she wakes up in the middle of the night.
  • Buying an extra bag of Milanos so she can be surprised when she finds it hidden away in the back of the cupboard.
  • Finding solutions to problems with our house before I complain to her about it – saving her the drama of it all.

None of these is amazingly romantic or groundbreaking actions. It’s the boring mundane everyday stuff. But I think that adds up. Little surprises. Little solutions. Little habits.

Malcolm Gladwell wrote of the 10,000 hours necessary to master something. And as you can imagine, those 10,000 hours are likely the least glamorous hours one can imagine. Years of doing small things, often getting them wrong, but sticking with it anyway.

And that is how I view the lifestyle of writers: sticking with it through small actions each week. I recently gave this advice to an author asking whether they should either begin writing their next book OR develop their platform with readers:

“Do both. If you spend 3 hours per week writing, and 1 hour per week learning about who your ideal readers are and how to engage them, you are MILES ahead of most other writers.”

Don’t wait for a book launch, don’t wait for a glamorous marketing plan or “the right time.” Just take small actions each week. Focus on the core stuff: writing and readers.

For writers: develop your skills as a communicator; develop relationships; grow your platform in the process. Too many writers I speak with put off some of these things. They feel that since they are SO BUSY writing the book, they can ignore any thought of readers until “they are ready,” and “they have time.”

You will NEVER feel you are ready, and NEVER feel you will have enough time. You will simply box yourself into a corner until a book launch is upon you, and you have no choice but to spam people about your book in order to feel that you are getting the word out.

I’ll end on the advice my dad gave me just before my wedding:

“Dan, the secret to a successful marriage is using these two words often: yes dear.”

Thanks Dad. Oh, and happy 47th anniversary to you and mom at the end of this month.

For writers, I think this advice translates to listening intently to two things:

  1. Your inner voice as a writer. Taking action on those things you feel compelled to create. Actually writing as a lifestyle, a daily habit.
  2. Learning about your readership – the folks you hope will be moved by your work.

Say yes to both of these things. Often.

Both of these actions require a lot of empathy, and listening more than talking. Like any good marriage.
🙂

Thanks.
-Dan

How to Create Word of Mouth Marketing For Your Books? Be Awesome.

More is better, right? We should all desire a bigger audience, right?

Wrong.

Again and again, we hear evidence that “word of mouth” is the way that people hear about books. So let’s think this through: how do you create more word of mouth marketing around your books?

Is it you sending dozens of Tweets each month promoting your new book?
Nope.

Is it by friending hundreds of people on Goodreads for the sole purpose of hoping they magically check out your books?
Nope.

What about giving stuff away, that is totally how to create a loyal readership, right?
Nope.

How do you create word of mouth marketing? By delighting the readers you already have.

Consider it this way: why try to get a bigger audience when you have not yet developed the capacity to best serve the readers & audience you have right now? That’s right, “engagement” and “retention” are skills that you can develop.

What I see all too often is writers judging success and the relationship with readers as something that begins and ends with the sale of their book. That the $10 transaction is the culmination of your effort with readers. And that’s just silly.

Let’s look at a scenario in the business world:

  1. A company (such as a bank or phone provider) offers you an amazing deal to become a customer.
  2. You sign up, and once you become a customer, you find their customer service puts you on hold for 30 minutes when you call, they hit you with fees you weren’t aware of, and provide few options for more flexibility around your account.
  3. So you threaten to leave them, and suddenly, they offer to upgrade you.

This is a company focused on growth alone, putting less value on satisfaction of their existing customers. They offer you incentives to join, don’t treat you especially well when you do sign up, and then only worry about retaining you as a customer when you threaten to leave.

This is a huge problem, even at the business level. It is SO HARD to get a new customer, or in your case, a new reader. Sales teams often come up with exact dollar amounts it costs to get a new customer and set their marketing dollars based on this. For instance, they may determine that the lifetime value of a customer is $1,000. So in the example above, they have worked out that if I sign up for their cable service, based on their averages, I will give them $1,000 before I move or switch to another provider. So when they determine the marketing budget for new promotions and ads, they ensure that it costs them anything less than $1,000 to get me as a new customer. That’s why you see these companies spending millions of dollars on marketing – they have done the math.

But retention is often overlooked, even though it can be cheaper than getting a new customer.

In other words, the value of engaging your existing audience – of delighting them, of making them feel so special to the point where they can’t help but talk about you and your work – that is a much better value proposition than just spamming the world looking for new readers.

This is the heart of word of mouth marketing: just be awesome.

(credit: John & Hank Green have made the phrase DFTBA or “Don’t Forget To Be Awesome” a catch phrase in their community.)

This is why I get skeptical of articles or programs promising to get you 1,000 more Facebook fans, 50 more Goodreads reviews, or 200 more Twitter followers. The number sounds big, so we assume that is good. But who are these people? And more importantly: when you take the easy road to a vague and distant “large” audience, you have never developed an understanding of how to serve them, delight them, and make them feel good about talking about your work.

Are you a writer who is afraid of becoming a “marketer” who annoys people? Then instead of spamming people, focus on treating your readers as the most special people in the world. Even if you think you only have a small audience of 10 or 20 readers. Find ways to delight them.

I have been putting together an online conference focused on helping writers “Get Read” – to find and engage their ideal readers. In developing the program, I find myself focused very much on the ideas of retention and word of mouth marketing.

That there is an important skill to be learned on how authors can create a delightful experience for readers, for librarians, for booksellers, for reviewers, for publishers, for agents, for everyone in the publishing process. And that this is wildly more meaningful than pretending that some arbitrary number of twitter followers is even remotely useful.

At the event, you will hear from people deep in the trenches of publishing about not only what sells a book, but what delights a reader.

To hear more about the event, and join us, click here.

Thanks!
-Dan

No More B.S. About What It Takes To Be a Successful Writer

“You too can be a bestseller, just follow these simple steps!”

Ugh, I get queazy when I hear things like that. In the world of writing and publishing, too often, people are selling dreams. They over-promise; they present a tactic that worked once for someone, and pretend it is an easy replicatable system; they play on our fears and our dreams. For many, the process of “getting published” is about validation, and it doesn’t take a marketing genius to manipulate such a deep-seated human need.

This is bullshit.

I spend my days with writers, and have spend my entire life pursuing creative endeavors, from writing, to art, to photography, to music, and more. The truth is this:

  • It is difficult to create.
  • It is difficult to publish & share.
  • It is difficult to find an audience.
  • It is difficult to align all of this to revenue and income.

There, I said it. And I don’t just mean technologically difficult or skill-driven difficult, but EMOTIONALLY difficult. Now, before you break out the Kleenex, there is a lot of good news:

  • It is easier to create now than it ever has been before.
  • It is easier to publish & share than it ever has been before.
  • It is easier to find and engage an audience than it ever has been before.
  • It is easier to earn revenue and income from your creative work than it ever has been before.

I am the luckiest person in the world to know so many AMAZING folks within the writing and publishing worlds. People who – day to day – devote their time to helping great work spread. They are in publishing houses, in libraries, in bookstores, in literary agencies, in book clubs, in organizations, on social media, at their desks writing, and always: reading, reading, reading.

These people do not wear rose-colored glasses when it comes to publishing. They sort of operate in a constant balance between two states:

  • The total belief in the magic of words, of story, of how a book can reshape someone’s life.
  • They long ago became jaded by the story of publishing as a lottery ticket: where you are just moments away from instant stardom and bestseller-hood. They have a no B.S. approach to what it means to write, to publish, to get read. It’s work. The rewards don’t come easy. (but it’s worth it.)

So when I decided to hold a conference for writers, I immediately viewed it as a party whereby I would invite all of these amazing folks I know in the publishing and writing world as advisors and speakers. These are the realists, the dreamers, the pragmatists, the fans, the ranting raving speak-their-mind-ers, the people who do it because they love it, because they can’t NOT do it.

On November 13th and 14th, I am holding that party, and you are invited. It is called Get Read: Marketing Strategies for Writers, an online conference where you attend from wherever you are. Everything takes place online, you hear and engage with the speakers via online video and text chat during those two days.

The list of advisors and speakers so far is INCREDIBLE:

Jason Allen Ashlock is the president of Movable Type Management, which manages more than 100 authors. You can find Jason at http://mtmgmt.net and on Twitter at @jasonashlock.

 

 

Claire Cook is the bestselling author of 10 novels, including Must Love Dogs, which was adapted into a film starring Diane Lane and John Cusack. You can find Claire at ClaireCook.com and on Twitter at @clairecookwrite.

 

 

Elizabeth S. Craig is the author of more than 10 novels, including the BBQ mysteries series, Southern Quilting mysteries series and the Myrtle Clover mysteries series. You can find Elizabeth at http://mysterywritingismurder.blogspot.com and on Twitter at @ElizabethSCraig.

 

 

Stephanie Anderson is the Head of Reader Services at Darien Library, and Manager Emeritus of WORD bookstore. You can find Stephanie at http://bookavore.tumblr.com and on Twitter at @bookavore.

 

 

Betsy Bird is a children’s book author, librarian, and review. You can find Betsy at http://blogs.slj.com/afuse8production/, http://www.betsybirdbooks.com and on Twitter at @fuseeight.

 

 

Guy LeCharles Gonzalez is a poet and Director, Content Strategy & Audience Development for Media Source, Inc.’s Library Journals, LLC, and was the founding Director of Programming & Business Development for Digital Book World. You can find Guy at LoudPoet.com and on Twitter at @GLeCharles

 

 

Ami Greko is a book marketing strategist at Goodreads, and the founder of Book Camp NYC, and unconference for publishing folks. You can find Ami at http://amiwithani.tumblr.com and on Twitter at @Ami_With_An_I

 

 

Rachel is a writer and in charge of literary and nonprofit outreach at Tumblr. She is the co-creator of Six-Word Memoirs and co-editor of the New York Times Bestseller Not Quite What I Was Planning and three other books. She is also the former public programming director at Housing Works Bookstore Cafe. You can find Rachel at http://rachelfershleiser.com and on Twitter at @RachelFersh.

 

 

Richard Nash is an independent publishing entrepreneur – VP of Community and Content of Small Demons, founder of Cursor, and Publisher of Red Lemonade. For most of the past decade, he ran the iconic indie Soft Skull Press. You can find Richard at http://rnash.com and on Twitter at @R_Nash.

 

 

Jenn Northington is an indie bookseller & event manager for Word Bookstores, and the co-founder of the Bookrageous podcast. You can find Jenn at http://jennirl.com and on Twitter at @JennIRL.

 

 

Kate Rados is the Director of Community Development at Crown Publishing. You can find Kate on Twitter at @KateRados.

 

 

M.J. Rose is the international bestselling author of 13 novels, as well as the creator of authorbuzz.com. You can find M.J. at mjrose.com and on Twitter at @mjrose.

 

 

Rebecca Schinsky is the senior editor at BookRiot.com and FoodRiot.com, as well as the founder of Bookrageous. You can find Rebecca at http://rebeccaschinsky.tumblr.com and on Twitter at @RebeccaSchinsky.

 

 

Therese Walsh is an author and co-founder of WriterUnboxed.com. You can find Therese at ThereseWalsh.com and on Twitter at @ThereseWalsh.

 

 

Chuck Wendig is a novelist, screenwriter, and game designer, as well as frequent blogger. You can find Chuck at TerribleMinds.com and on Twitter at @ChuckWendig.

 

 

I will be announcing more speakers and information on the event soon. If you are interested in attending, I am offering an early-bird discount through this Friday. Find out more about the event, and register here.

Thanks!
-Dan

Life Is More Than A Series Of Tweets. On Taking A Break From Your “Platform.”

Writers feel so much pressure to be constantly connecting with others online and off; they are encouraged to treat each new follower and “friend” as if they could be the person standing between failure and success.

Like a hamster running on a little wheel, it spins and spins, never slowing down.

So when do you just… stop. Stop Tweeting, stop blogging, stop sending emails, or even checking your email at all? When do you stop researching, planning, strategizing and talking?

A writer I work with was recently confronted with exactly this dilemma: “Can I just stop for awhile?” After 6 years of blogging, of developing an audience and a wonderful platform, of publishing books, of doing so much, Barbara Techel is taking a sabbatical.

Here is her first blog post from April of 2007, and here his her latest, announcing her taking some time off.

She and I have worked together through a couple of my online courses, spending months together helping her craft her platform and connect with readers in meaningful ways. So when she called and asked about the idea of just STOPPING, my gut is she expected me to talk her out of it.

I, of course, didn’t. I encouraged her to absolutely take the time she needs, but to simply let her readers know what to expect. Protect your personal space by taking the time, but honor the connection that others feel to you by not keeping them in the dark. People may worry!

Recently, I shared a blog post on WriterUnboxed.com about the need to reject “best practices” and the idea of fitting in. That you don’t want to “go viral,” you instead want to focus intently on individuals, and forging relationships that are about so much more than the sale of a book.

Are you overwhelmed? Most people I know are, including many of the writers I work with. A lot of the work I do with them is to provide clarity for them that reduces the overwhelm, and gives them focus to connect with readers in a way that feels right for them.

While taking a sabbatical may or may not be what you need, honoring your own needs is critical. Life is more than a series of Tweets. Creative professionals are usually on a journey, and the books they write (or paintings they create or songs they sing) are representative of one moment in a longer journey.

Awhile back, I wrote another blog post titled The Creative Process: Not Everything Needs to be Shared, with these thoughts:

  • Our creative work need not be shared.
  • Our creative work need not earn a profit.
  • Our creative work can be a slow and personal process, and it’s effect internal, not external.

And oftentimes, all the “best practices” that promise easy success take you off track. Your journey is your own. This is why everything I do when working with writers includes a lot of personal interaction – because your goals are unique, your challenges are unique.

I want to leave you with two powerful examples of the value of not fitting in: this video by Ze Frank:

And this illustrated blog post by Allie Brosh, where she talks about her own sabbatical, and battle with depression.

Thanks.
-Dan

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Thanks!
– Dan