The best way to build your author platform today

My updated workshop, Launch & Grow Your Email Newsletter on Substack, is now available. I’ve added so much new content, including:

  • Updated ideas on how to get engagement and grow your subscribers.
  • Loads of new advice on how to launch and grow your paid subscriptions.
  • Bonus: All who register will also receive an additional 40-minute video where I walk you through how to create a Substack account from scratch. You will look over my shoulder as I show you how I do this for myself and clients.

Of course, the workshop includes a full Q&A.

The testimonials from people who have taken earlier versions of this workshop have been off the charts:

“Dan Blank is the bomb! Okay, more than that. Basically, the workshop was clear, validating, and encouraging. Dan has a way of making all of it feel entirely manageable. What’s more: he made Substack feel like the community I’ve been waiting for as a writer — like we’re all in this together.”
– Maria Hanley

“The workshop is an A to Z overview of Substack for beginners to those already using it. Dan shared so many aspects of Substack that I wasn’t aware of.”
– Monica Cardoza

“This workshop was full of incredible content, and Dan was generous in his presentation. This couldn’t be more valuable — highly recommended to anyone who wants to start or grow their Substack newsletter.”
– Judith Fetterley

You can read full details about the workshop and register here.

Why an Author Platform?

Something I have been thinking about a lot recently is this: what does it meant to truly build an author platform that works for you? Now, that may be unique for your personal needs/goals, but it may include:

Developing an audience for your writing.
Convincing agents, editors, and publishers that you can reach readers when marketing your book.
Feeling as though you can share with a sense of authenticity.
Creating a truly meaningful connection between you and readers, instead of focusing on faceless “followers.”
As I wrote about recently, social media has changed — pretty radically — in just the last year alone. So many of you may feel as though you have tried blogging, and podcasting, and social media, and so much else that just… fell flat.

If you have read my work for a while, you know that I have been excited about Substack, and today I want to explain why. At the heart of it is this:

Substack feels old-fashioned.

What works about it goes back to very traditional ways that we as human beings connect. You may know that I have this phrase I use, “Human-Centered Marketing,” to describe how I help you learn to share your writing in ways that are effective, and also feel truly meaningful and authentic to who you are.

I started blogging back around 2006. For years, the comments section of my blog was thriving, but then social media took over. The comments on my blog completely died because people preferred to share and talk about my ideas on their own social media feeds. This, by itself, is not good or bad, but as a writer it felt like a big shift in my ability to engage with readers.

But once I moved to Substack, I noticed something: the comments section was thriving again, with dozens of comments on some of my posts. People were sharing my writing with their own audiences, and other publications on Substack were recommending my work. I see this with the writers who I work with as well. For the first time in years, they feel a close connection to their readers, and are seeing their readers act as a supportive community, not just as a vague number next to the word “followers.”

More and more, I am seeing people leaving social media in order to focus on a smaller audience in a more engaged community such as their Substack subscribers. I am seeing influencers with tens of thousands of followers on Instagram now turn most of their attention to their Substack that has a small fraction of their audience. Why? Because this smaller group is the group that will truly support their writing, help ensure they earn money from their writing, and who will make the entire experience feel more meaningful.

One writer who took my Substack workshop, Maria Hanley, recently shared this:


I have 95 subscribers. But guess what happened to me yesterday after I posted [my most recent Substack essay]:

  • A friend texted to tell me she enjoyed my post. And she thinks I’m talented!
  • A new reader I’ve never met told me that she can “relate” to my work, she was “cheering” me on, and I am a “beautiful writer.”
  • I had the most comments I’ve had on any post, resulting in several genuine, meaningful interactions about my work.

Isn’t this what we all dream about when we consider sharing our writing?

Now, maybe you are a pragmatist reading this and saying, “Actually Dan, I could care less about a ‘community.’ I want book sales, plain and simple.” I’m from New Jersey, so I love jaded pragmatists! The thing is, I have been finding with my clients that Substack helps deliver that too. Here is a quote from my client Melinda Wenner Moyer:

Melinda Wenner Moyer

She just announced her second book and is already involving her Substack audience of 20,000 subscribers in that process. If you are thinking, “Dan, that’s wonderful for her, but I have nowhere near that many followers,” then it’s worth noting: she had less than half this many subscribers at the start of the year.

To be honest, I have worked professionally in online media and social media for more than 20 years, and I have never seen anything like the growth for writers that I have been seeing with Substack. But more than that, I keep hearing from writer after writer that for the first time in a long time, they feel good about sharing online. And it’s all because of Substack.

Does that mean you “have to” use Substack? Of course not. Is Substack the correct path for absolutely every writer? Nope. But I can say that all day, every day I work with writers, talk with writers, and study what is working for writers. What Substack is providing is an ecosystem that is delivering on so many areas that writers hope for when they consider developing an author platform.

This all aligns with what I love: connecting readers with writing that moves them, and with writers who inspire them. As so many other social media platforms have moved to short-form video content, where they encourage you to entertain others, Substack is squarely focused on writing, writers, and readers.

In my workshop, I dive deep into:

  • How to Get Started with Substack
  • Defining Your Substack Publication
  • Creating Substack Content
  • Getting Subscribers
  • Growing a Paid Newsletter

I’ve added so many new strategies, tactics, and examples to this workshop, especially around growing your subscribers and launching a paid newsletter. Even if you can’t make the live call today, or missed it, I will keep registration open through end of day Monday so you can receive the recording.

And if you want direct advice from me, personalized to your specific goals and challenges, I’m also offering two ways that you can engage directly with me.

Read full details and register for Launch & Grow Your Email Newsletter on Substack today.

Thanks!
-Dan

Believe in your unique creative voice

Today I want to share a behind-the-scenes look at how I have run a creative business for the past 13 years, and three actions I am taking to share in a manner that feels authentic to who I am, and connect with my ideal readers in a meaningful way.

Below is a photo of me when I first started my business back in 2010. It perfectly illustrates a moment of transition. In front of me are the papers I am signing that formalize the ending of my employment, the publisher I worked for had closed down. To the right are the stacks of thank you cards from my wife’s baby shower for our first child. Here I am at the precipice of endings and beginnings, and a big vision for the work I hoped to create. I was excited and terrified:

Dan Blank

Since that time, I have worked with thousands of writers, helping them to share their work in ways that truly connects with readers. I have written a book and hundreds of essays, and have had countless moments with writers and creators that inspired me.

When I talk to writers about their concerns, they often tell me different versions of this: that it exists in a space that is delicate. Those around them don’t fully understand or embrace what they create. They struggle to find the time to create, let alone share. They worry that if they put their work out there for others, it will be met with silence.

Maybe this resonates with some of your experience. Yet, you create. That creative vision inside of you can’t be ignored.

So today I want to talk about three ways I am doubling down on my creative voice, and how you can too.

Before we begin, if there is anyone you know who would benefit from my November 10th workshop, Launch & Grow Your Email Newsletter on Substack, please consider sharing it with them Substack is completely changing how writers can connect with readers in a meaningful way, and even earn an income in the process. This workshop is updated with new strategies and examples that I have been using with my clients. Full info and registration here. Okay, onto today’s message….

Getting Clarity on Your Mission and Message is Difficult. Lean Into That Uncomfortableness.

One of the first things I do with writers I work with is help them define their Key Messages. This is the exact language that you would use in a normal conversation to talk about what you create and why, all in a manner that connects to a conversation with a real human being.

That is often different from an ‘elevator pitch.’ Why? Because an elevator pitch can exist in a unique social circumstance. The entire framing is that you are pitching your work to a potentially interested party in a short period of time.

But with Key Messages, these are conversations that fill our daily lives: seeing a neighbor on line at Starbucks; bumping into a colleague in the break room at work; talking to a friend while waiting to pick up your kids from some activity; chatting with a friend of a friend at a barbecue; messaging to your cousin via text.

I will say it: it is difficult to describe what you create and why. This is because so often it reflects on two things we have difficult relationships with:

  1. Our own identity and how we feel that frames the value of what we create, our credentials, and how others see us.
  2. Social dynamics and social fear. We don’t like putting ourselves out there seeking judgement because that can be uncomfortable. And when you talk to others about new things (such as your writing), or talk to new people, it can trigger those deep social fears.

Too often writers avoid talking about, apologize for, and dismiss their own work. They hide from opportunities to talk about it. And when they do, they are often vague. They miss opportunities to connect what they create in a way that truly resonates with the person they are speaking with.

Getting clarity is difficult. If you want some help, I suggest you work through my Clarity Cards exercise. It’s a free PDF that you can download here.

Clarity Cards

I’ve taken thousands of people through this exercise. The results are a simple pyramid of cards, but they can be life-changing:

Clarity Cards

I’ve been reviewing and adjusting my Clarity Cards and Key Messages, it is a process I go through again and again. As you work through the Clarity Card process, see where your writing and creative work fits into your pyramid. Then ask: do those around me know this about me?

Forget About Balance: Double Down on the Experiences You Want to Create

I feel like I always read encouragement to find “balance” between our creative work and other responsibilities. I have to be honest, I don’t believe in that for myself.

Instead, I am obsessed with creating the moments and experiences with those who matter most to me. That means showing up for my own creative vision, creating experiences with my family, as connecting with writers and creators. All of my energy goes to these places.

This makes decision making very easy, because if something doesn’t attend to my biggest priorities, it is an easy “no.” That isn’t meant to be negative, it is instead to use my very finite resources of time, energy, and attention to create experiences that truly speak to the experiences I want to create in my life. I want to show up for my writing and creative work. I want to show up for my family. I want to show up for the writers and creators who deeply inspire me.

My days are spent in a private studio:

Dan Blank

Now, this suits me really well because I am a major introvert. I talk to writers and creators via phone, Zoom, and online. I teach, I write, and I create.

I’m serious about developing my support system for mental health, because that replenishes those finite resources that I need in order to create meaningful experiences with my family and writers. This includes a daily nap, a daily walk, hiring others to guide me (such as my personal trainer and guide instructor), and managing my calendar so there are huge blocks of time with family.

As you consider the experiences you want to create in your life around your creative work, I encourage you to identify one small daily habit that would be meaningful to you. This could be to help you create more, such as writing for 15 minutes ever day. Or it could be in how you share your work and connect with others, such as sending one email each day to a writer or creator whose work has moved you.

Not every experience attending to your creative vision needs to be big and dramatic. One small habit of creating or connecting can have a powerful impact.

Your Voice is Unique. Sharing it is a Risk. Take That Risk.

In the past few years, my younger son watched all 895 episodes of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, twice. I’ve heard Fred Rogers’ wisdom again and again:

“There is only one like you in the whole world. There’s never been anyone exactly like you before, and there will never be again… I like you just the way you are.”

These words ring in my head all the time, and I have his photo hanging on the wall of my studio.

What I have been considering is how can I create and share with more intention, more frequently, and in the process, help writers even more. How can I honor and raise my own voice in the service of creating those meaningful moments I talked about earlier?

In doing this work full-time for 13 years, I have realized: while my mission hasn’t changed, how I execute on that mission is in constantly evolution. I imagine this may resonate with your own creative vision. In some ways, it may feel like a consistent and unchanging part of you. Yet, your craft grows, your work moves in new directions, your process changes as you evolve.

I will be sharing more writing, more videos, and more workshops. I will be experimenting with more collaborations, and more conversations with writers and creators. That is truly what inspires me.

I’m curious: why do you create your writing or art? What is your creative vision that drives you? Tell me in the comments.

Thank you for being here with me.

-Dan

P.S. Just a reminder to check out my November 10th workshop: Launch & Grow Your Email Newsletter on Substack. Thanks.

The Marketing Tactic that Keeps Matthew McConaughey a #1 Bestseller

Wouldn’t it be nice of books just sold themselves? Sometimes they do, but more often it is work. I want to share a case study of how this happens for one author, and one book. I’m going to zoom into a single TV appearance, and dissect the 10 minutes, moment by moment, to identify all the ways the book is being promoted.

This is how my brain works — I see people talking about books, and I think, “What exactly is happening here to effectively share what a book is and why someone would like it?” And I slow it down in my mind, rewind it, play it at half speed, rewind it again, play it over and over and over. My work is about helping writers express what they create, find ideal readers, and share their work in a meaningful way. So I tend to analyze things at this frame by frame level. Every word, every phrase, every expression.

Which brings us to Matthew McConaughey appearing on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon to promote his new picture book, Just Because. I shared recently that I had worked with the illustrator of that book, Renée Kurilla.

Just Because debuted at the top of the New York Times bestseller list for children’s picture books, and at the time of writing this, has been there for five consecutive weeks. Everything I share below happened after the book became a bestseller. So the marketing tactics I analyze show how the author is working to keep the book a bestseller. Matthew’s previous book has been on the bestseller list for 100 weeks. I imagine that is the goal with Just Because.

Which is to say, your book launch doesn’t end after launch week. It is work to ensure it keeps reaching readers.

What I want to illustrate in today’s case study is this:

Look at how hard these two people are working to promote this book, and how hard this entire entity of the TV show, their staff, the network, and the author’s team, is working. This is not an accident. There is a lot to learn in considering the nuances below.

I want to showcase the work involved in promoting a book, by two people who you would think, “Oh, they don’t have to work at promoting something. They are rich and famous and have these huge platforms. A book simply has to be published with Matthew’s name on it, and it’s an instant bestseller.”

Yet… look at how hard they are working in these 10 minutes to sell this book. Here is what unfolded:

Part 1: The Preview

Before the episode came out, The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon posted a preview teaser on YouTube Shorts. It starts with Questlove coming in to tell Jimmy that it’s so great to be back after a break, and Jimmy sharing that they don’t have a lead guest for that night’s show:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

The lighting gets darker and Jimmy is suddenly holding a candle, explaining that “Legend has it, if you say his catchphrase three times, he will appear…” He then, in a very Matthew McConaughey voice, looks in the mirror and says ‘Alright, alright, alright…”

A horror movie song plays as the camera whip pans around to see if Matthew appeared in the doorway:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Now Questlove joins in as they both say “Alright, alright, alright,” in the mirror a second time, and the camera whips around again to an empty doorway. But when they turn back to the mirror, Matthew is there and says, “Boo!”

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Jimmy asks why he appeared after only saying his catchphrase 2 times, instead of 3, and Matthew holds up his book, Just Because, and points to the title:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

This promo is a taste of what is to come, where every element is focused on the book. I can envision an entire staff of writers, publicists, and others around a table brainstorming how to make the book the punchline to a promo, and everything that follows.

Part 2: The Interview

Sixteen seconds into the discussion, Jimmy holds up Matthew’s previous bestselling book, establishing him as a wildly successful author (in case people didn’t know):

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Then, Jimmy begins explaining how much he enjoyed the book. I really appreciate a point he makes that by reading the physical book, Greenlights, then listening to the audiobook, “I probably spent 24 hours of my life with you, and you didn’t know about it.” So often, writers focus on the price as being the biggest hurdle to get past when convincing someone to buy a book. But I think the investment of time and energy is as — or even more — important.

Look at Jimmy’s face here and arms in the image below. Isn’t this how every author wants to feel when a reader talks to them about their book?

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Jimmy continues by saying, “I think it was #1 for 98 weeks or something.” When you see him do it, he’s telling the person who knows this already — the author — looking him right in the eye. But really, he is telling the audience: “You may know Matthew as a movie star, but he is an incredible author. I want to reorient your way of looking at him to be as a successful author.” There is a lot of psychological framing going on here:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Now, Matthew is very charming. He positions the success of the book in terms of the conversations he’s had with readers. That they see themselves in his stories, and he expresses humbleness in that relationship. Here he motions to the audience to make it about the reader. Look at how open his facial expressions are:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Jimmy continues to share how honest and “real” the stories in the book are. So much of the work here is establishing success and authenticity, as if he is saying, “Hey, this is a successful writer, but he’s not grandstanding, he’s just like you, and he’s so authentic. Maybe you and he can have a beer after the show.”

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Now that they have anchored Matthew as a great writer, a successful author, and someone relatable, you can physically see the transition to the next book as Jimmy begins raising Just Because, as he puts down Greenlights, saying:

“You can see the seeds of Just Because in Greenlights.” This again is a framing device, to transfer the perception of success from the first book to the second book.

Matthew McConaughey book launch

From here Matthew dives into a specific story right away, which is a smart way to connect readers to the book. To engage through story, not description. He tells of his childhood treehouse, which is illustrated on the cover. Again, he speaks directly to the audience:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

A lot of writers undercut their own story and what they create. They rush through it, diminish it, they tell the least dramatic version of what they write and why. Why? They worry about seeming self-involved. They worry that talking about what they create somehow turns a pure creative act into a hollow cry for attention. But Matthew tells this story with a sense of awe in his voice, as if he has never shared this before. Here he describes how big his treehouse was:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Only then does he pivot to a larger theme in the book, hoping to make it relatable to the viewer: “A treehouse I think is a symbol for all of us. It is the first place for me that I got to go and have my own private thoughts, write down my private things, have my things, where it is like no one else can see that if I don’t want them to. The only people in my treehouse are the people I invite to my treehouse.”

Then Jimmy pivots back to the process of creativity, “So you write this, I’ll give it a shot, I’ll release this as a children’s book. Did you ever think you would write a children’s book?”

Matthew’s response focuses on the purity of the creative act, and (again) how relatable it is: “This came to me in a little ditty of a dream one night. I woke up at 2:30 with this little hook…” And he starts singing the words from the book. He continues: “So I write about 200 couplets, 30 of which made it into this version.” He then talks about how the themes are things his kids are going through, and their friends are going through, that he hears other parents talking about — again focusing on this idea of universal themes that the audience can relate to. “That’s what’s in the book.”

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Then, in case all this work isn’t clear, Jimmy overtly says: “I dig it, man. I love it. This is so much up my alley. Even if I didn’t have kids, I would have this.” As he is saying this, I feel like I can see Jimmy recognize that he’s not holding up the book! So he grabs it to hold up the cover yet again:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Matthew points to the audience, recognizing that illustrator Renée Kurilla is there today.

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Then Jimmy chimes in: “FANTASTIC illustrations! Great job!” The audience literally begins cheering. Jimmy realizes he hasn’t shown the back cover yet:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

As if they haven’t explored every nuance of this book, Jimmy finds another: “I like the dedication at the end of the book, would you mind reading it?” Even the their physical position of this is part of the marketing — where each of them are holding half of the book. It’s as if Jimmy is saying: “if you like me, you should like this book. Here I am holding it, arm in arm, with successful author Matthew MacConaughey.”

Matthew McConaughey book launch

A loud cheer follows, with Matthew proclaiming, “Isn’t that true?!” Jimmy looks on with reverence, and Matthew holds up his hands as if to say, “Your welcome.”

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Then… they quickly move into a small bit. The line from the dedication is “We are all as young as we are ever going to be.” Matthew notes, “We are as young as we are ever going to be right now. Whoop! We just got older.” And he looks at Jimmy. Now I’m not sure if this is planned or not, but they move into the bit:

In unison: “Whoop, we just got older!”
”Whoop, we just got older!”

I mean, look at the expression in each of their eyes below — total shock and wonder. Where else do you see expressions like this? On the day grandparents sees their grandkid for the first time. Or when two people have been stranded on a desert island, and they are about to die of starvation, but they suddenly discover a Krispy Kreme donut shop on the island that they hadn’t noticed before, and it’s also free donut day. They could not be more joyful:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Jimmy then moves on to a story about how they lit up the Empire State Building with green lights when Matthew visited, to honor his book, Greenlights. But not before holding up the cover of Just Because again! Why? Because the goal here is clearly not to promote Greenlights or anything else, it is to keep the viewer ensconced in Just Because.

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Thirty seconds later, Jimmy holds up both books again as they prepare to cut to a commercial break. He starts by saying, “Congrats on both books.”

Matthew McConaughey book launch

But then quickly hides the older book to encourage people to buy Just Because. Where did Greenlights go? It doesn’t exist! Only Just Because exists!

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Part 3: People Remember Songs

For seven minutes, Matthew and Jimmy have covered every way to promote this book, right? Wrong. Let’s consider: how else can we get people to feel engaged with this book? To remember the title? To remember what it is about?

The answer: song. Why? Well, here are some quotes from Kelly Jakubowski, Associate Professor in Music Psychology, Durham University on the power of music to aid in memory and connection:

“The science behind rhyme, rhythm and repetition… The features of music often serve as a predictable “scaffold” for helping us to remember associated lyrics. For instance, the rhythm and beat of the music give clues as to how long the next word in a sequence will be. This helps to limit the possible word choices to be recalled, for instance, by signalling that a three-syllable word fits with a particular rhythm within the song.”

Okay, back to our analysis…

After the commercial break, what is Jimmy doing? STILL HOLDING UP THE BOOK! And I want to point out, they could have put the book on a little stand, but I think it is an important detail to see the host of the show physically holding up the book, making the connection, “Jimmy likes this book. You like Jimmy, so you should like this book.”

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Then the setup for the next segment begins… by Jimmy opening the book: “Matthew, I was reading the book earlier, and I just have to say, I love it, and I do recommend it…” I mean, the gushing doesn’t end!

But he continues, “It has a rhythm to it…” and he begins singing lines from it:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Jimmy continues: “What I was thinking we could do, is to add a little music to it…” He motions to the band:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

And we see Captain Kirk Douglas play a riff:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

The rest of the band joins in, to an obviously prepared song, and Jimmy begins singing, with he and Matthew trading off lines:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Jimmy then pulls out two handheld microphones that are already on, and the two of them begin to move center stage, in front of the band:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

So here they are leaning into one of Jimmy’s talents, as a singer and performer, and we are experiencing the book in an entirely new way:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Now we see the full band, The Roots, in frame, all going along. Lead by Questlove, the current members include (according to Wikipedia): Black Thought, Kamal Gray, Captain Kirk Douglas, Damon “Tuba Gooding Jr.” Bryson, Ray Angry, James Poyser, Mark Kelley, Stro Elliot, Jeremy Ellis, Ian Hendrickson-Smith, and Dave Guy. I mean, look at the immense talent of so many people in this one image, all using visual and audio cues to engage you with this book:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

And of course, as the performance ends, two books magically appear in each of their hands. I slowed this down frame by frame to analyze it – it all happens in 3 seconds, as if by magic. Here we are at minute 2:47 — what is missing here? There are no books!

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Now a second later at 2:48, Jimmy’s hand glides gently out of frame, as if he is about to pull a rabbit out of a hat:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Suddenly a book appears! Notice Matthew’s hand reaching to his left:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Look at the image below, do you see the flaw here, the glaring flaw that may have cost someone their job? The hand that appears just to the right of the screen, giving Matthew the book, thus breaking the illusion of magic. Why am I focused on that tiny glimpse of a hand? Because it breaks this narrative of two chums just sitting around chatting about what they love. It is a reminder: this is all setup and pre-planned to the millisecond:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

And here we go, ending with the book in frame, both people smiling:

Matthew McConaughey book launch

Do you have to do all of this when promoting your writing? No! But I want to highlight that this is work. I want to recognize the nuances of this work. These things didn’t just happen, it took planning and effort. It’s possible to look at the bestseller list and think that it is easy for everyone else to find success, and there is no room for you.

I like analyzing how books are shared because when I do, I see the nuances of the work involved. That there was likely weeks of planning that went into every detail of this 10 minute TV appearance. There were probably dozens of ideas that were developed, but later rejected. The result? Connecting readers to stories, ideas, and information that moves them.

If you share what you create, I encourage you to not feel ashamed of that effort. So many people shy away from talking about what they create. I want to encourage you to feel permission to talk about your creative vision, and to feel good about it.

Jimmy and Matthew couldn’t possibly be more famous than they are, yet what I’m illustrating here is this: promoting a book can be work, and to sustain a book, that work continues. A team of people came up with a ton of ideas that Jimmy and Matthew and The Roots executed on here. And this is just one marketing tactic out of many that Matthew will be using for weeks and months to come.

You may be thinking to yourself, “Dan, if this is what is required of me, I want no part of it. I would rather never write another word than to have to constantly sell my book in such an overt fashion.” So I want to share my actionable takeaways from this case study that you can remix as you like:

  1. Consistency and repetition help people learn about what you write and why. A couple weeks ago, I shared a different book launch case study that made a similar point, landing that novelist on the bestseller list as well.
  2. Use different emotional and psychological framing to engage people with what you create. Simply because you mentioned your book once, a few weeks ago, don’t assume people remember, or that it struck a deep emotional or psychological chord with them. Consider different ways people can find a connection to your writing. In this example, we focused on personal stories, aligning to success, song, social proof, likeability, and so much else.
  3. Having others advocate for your work is a powerful way to engage new readers. How can you bring your creative work to other communities? Consider the difference between the author pitching their book, and in this case, Jimmy saying, “I would own this book even if I didn’t have kids.” How can you create conversations with others around the themes you write about?

You can find the Just Because book here. And if you want to watch all of this unfold yourself, you can see the videos here: the teaser, the interview, and the song.

Thanks!

-Dan

Share with authenticity and intention

This week, my wife and I are celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary. Two weeks ago, we celebrated my son’s bar mitzvah. In thinking about these milestones, I’ve been considering ideas that can help you feel good about how you share your writing and creative work.

I speak with writers and artists all the time who worry that there aren’t authentic and meaningful ways to share what they create. Today’s essay is a bit more personal than usual, but I promise to include practical insights encouraging you to have permission to share in a manner that feels completely authentic to who you are, and your mission as a writer. Okay, let’s dig in…

Create Experiences That are Authentic to Who You Are

My wife is an amazing artist who continues to learn new skills and grow as a creator. This has not changed from who she was twenty years ago when we decided to design our wedding in a do-it-yourself (DIY) manner.

Okay, let’s get this out of the way first: my wedding had a theme. The theme? Fairies. Yep, I had a fairy themed wedding. It was 2003, and fairies were all the rage, I suppose.

My wife created every detail of the wedding decorations and theme. She spent a year working on this. Let’s take a photo tour of all the decor she made, shall we? We can start with the wings she made for herself, and all of her bridesmaids:

Wedding

The cake topper:

wedding

The fairy house that welcomed everyone:

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The name cards that told each guest where to sit:

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The photo display:

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The centerpieces:

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Wings hung everywhere:

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She made over 125 fairies — each unique — to give to every guest:

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Here’s a closeup of some of them:

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For gifts for the bridesmaids, these books were pre-made from the store, but she painted them and filled them with crafty treats!

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This custom quilt wall hanging:

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This sign for the bubbles handed out to each person for the ceremony:

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The guestbook (and sign):

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And us!

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We created a wedding that felt completely authentic to who we are, and what we wanted the experience to be.

As you share what you create — whether that is developing a public presence as a writer, sharing your writing, or launching a book — I encourage you to do it in a manner that feels authentic to you. Too often, we feel pressure to do things at a “professional level.” Yet, oftentimes that feels hollow, and is completely ineffective. A personal approach can be filled with charm, and that engages people deeply. I tried to illustrate this in my case study last week, where Jessica Elefante sent out these amazing packages of items to promote her book.

When you decide how to share and show up online, don’t make it a copy of a copy of a copy of something that someone else did years ago. Make it your own. And please, don’t half-bake it. Go all in with what feels authentic to what you create and why.

That can sometimes be scary. I’ll be honest, I was nervous about writing this very newsletter, fearing it focused too much on events that you may not care about. But sharing the richness of experiences that I have had is the only thing that is truly unique to me. And you have that same opportunity in what you share, and how you do it.

Ignore Expectations to Honor Your Intentions

My older son had his bar mitzvah recently, and in many ways, it was the world’s smallest bar mitzvah. If you aren’t familiar, a bar mitzvah is typically like many other big events: a ceremony that lasts an hour or so, followed by a big formal party. Usually, the party is exactly like a wedding, with a DJ, lights, music, a fancy cake, seating arrangements, tons of food, and dancing dancing dancing.

But we did something different. The goal was to honor my son and the milestone he was reaching, as well as experience the traditions of the ceremony. In planning for this event, it can almost be defined by all the things we didn’t do, because these things are so often expected:

We didn’t hire a photographer.
We didn’t hire a DJ.
We didn’t hire a caterer.
We didn’t invite 100+ people.

Instead, we meticulously planned for the ceremony itself, with my son practicing for months and months, with incredible support from the temple staff.

We invited just immediate family and my son’s best friends. Those who were able, came and those who couldn’t attend sent generous well wishes. In total, we had 10 people, including my son! Here I am with both of my kids on the big day:

We rented out another room in the temple for a luncheon, had food delivered from an amazing deli, brought our own cake, and… we just talked! It was lovely.

Did we miss out? Did I rob my son of some memorable experience by not doing a huge party? Who knows. Maybe there is some alternate universe where I planned a party that cost $35,000, and I ended up saying, “that is the best idea I ever had!” But that isn’t this universe. We did what felt right to us.

By letting go of the expectations of others, we created a moment that honored our intentions of being fully present for my son, and enjoyed the nuances of this tradition.

In how you create and share, I encourage you to ignore the expectations of others, and honor the intentions of your creative vision. It is unique to you and filled with so much potential.

Thank you for being here with me.

-Dan

A Book Launch Infused with Meaning and Joy: A Case Study Featuring Jessica Elefante

Earlier this year, I worked with author Jessica Elefante on preparing for her book launch. Next week, her book is being released. As I write this, there is that anticipation where I am aware of all of the incredible work that Jess has done — for years and years — to build to this moment. And there is that reflection of the unknown… what will happen when the book is available to readers?!

Today I want to focus on a single aspect of her book launch plans.

Before I dive into that, I want to share two other moments that authors I have worked with are experiencing this week. I recently worked with author and illustrator Renée Kurilla, and she shared this image the other day:

Matthew McConaughey and Renee Kurilla

That is her with Matthew McConaughey, holding their #1 New York Times bestselling book, Just Because. But that isn’t the only book that she released recently. Her book, It’s Fall!, came out recently, joining her growing list of 10 other published books!

Another author I’ve worked with had a huge week as well. This is the amazing Amanda Montell appearing on the Anything Goes with Emma Chamberlain podcast. If you aren’t familiar with Emma, her podcast is huge, and she has an audience of more than 15 million fans. Amanda is on the right in this image:

Emma Chamberlain and Amanda Montell

Renée and Amanda have each worked so long to create these moments. Their dedication, collaborations, and so much else led here, and to where they each go next.

While the writers I’m focusing on today are having huge moments, I love working with all writers, including those just starting out, or those part way up the climb to where they hope to be. My days are spent with writers at all stages, from just figuring out their message, to trying to get their first subscriber, and so much more. I find incredible value pulling from one experience to assist another. I am in the trenches with writers and creators, and that means I am the luckiest person in the world.

Which brings us back to Jessica Elefante. To be honest, I have no idea what will happen with her book next week, next month, or in the next year. No one does. But I know that she is incredibly talented, has done so much to lead to this moment, and is going to make it fun and meaningful. Her book focuses on helping the reader experience “freedom from influence in a world where everyone wants something from you.” She is a big believer in analog offline experiences that are not mediated by a screen or big tech company. Which brings us to….

This box:

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This arrived in the mail the other day. But no, there is not a small pizza inside of it. The blue seal begins to set the tone:

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It reads: “You received a PACKAGE! Not an email, notification, instant message, snap chat, text message, tweet, or wall post. But a… hand packed, hand delivered PACKAGE! Snail mail is an unexpected party in a box with NO instant gratification included.”

Once I broke the seal and opened it, this is what I was presented with:

Jessica Elefante book launch

So many fun things! I want to note up front the important detail of needing to break the seal, and to unwrap the book from the ribbon. I love how it forces me to take an action to uncover the mysteries that await. Such a small detail, but critical to making a meaningful experience. It’s like walking through a threshold.

This is a promotional box that seems to have been sent out to a select group of people. Okay, let’s take a look at each item one by one.

We can start with the box itself, and Jess’s handwritten words on the inside: “Made Fresh!! With love. From Brooklyn. Xx Jess.” Again, she is underscoring the point of all of her work: the importance of connections between people that are not mediated by technology. This isn’t a pizza pie, but it was still prepared fresh for me. Her mentioning of place — where she lives in Brooklyn — and infusing it with caring and love, sets a tone for what this is. It’s not a bunch of junk purchased off of Amazon that has a tertiary connection to a theme of her book. Each of these items are custom and are meant to help infuse the reader with an experience that matters.

Okay, let’s start with… the book!

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Throughout the entire book are these seemingly handwritten notes:

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And I’ll be honest, this one totally tricked me! I thought this was actually her testing her pen in order to write the note to me:

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Here is another “detail” that 100% supports how Jess does everything, and all that the book embodies: 12 pages of Acknowledgements!

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And she was incredibly generous and kind in the inscription:

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Okay, let’s dig into each of the other items in the box. First we have this adorable bookmark, whose thread reminds me of the friendship bracelets that we would make as kids. On the bookmark is the manifesto of the book and how to live:

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Next up: the big round sticker! There isn’t any branding on this tying it back to her.

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Next we have: the disco ball keychain! One side has her branding, and the other says this:

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One thing that I hope is obvious from what she is sharing here is the sense of FUN she tries to infuse with everything. Much of what she is against is truly scary stuff, and it is invasive to our lives. And while she takes those things soooo seriously, her recommendation for a cure is all framed in giving yourself agency, creating meaningful moments, and having fun.

Here we have the patch! And in case you were wondering, Folk Rebellion is a brand she created years ago, and she has now infused that with the work of her book:

Jessica Elefante book launch

Okay, this is my favorite detail of the entire package. Did you notice how when I opened the box, everything was displayed perfectly? That was thought and effort on Jessica’s part (or someone on her team.) There are these little dabs of sticky goo holding everything in place:

Jessica Elefante book launch

So many writers bemoan having to share, they just want to write. But what about all the sticky goo that is required for a successful book launch — have you ever considered that?!

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Okay, next up is a series of small zines:

Jessica Elefante book launch

This is amazing, the first one is instructions on how to make the very zine you are holding!

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Look at how adorable and useful this is:

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Next up are instructions on how to be a pen-pal! Here is the entire thing unfolded, but you would move through it like a small magazine:

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Next up: a guide to protecting yourself from burnout:

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Here are the insides:

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Next up: a companion worksheet to go with that last zine!

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She also included a personalized note, presented as we would have passed notes in class back in the 1980s! I remember there were special ways of folding them, which Jess has done expertly. My favorite detail here is the messy stray piece of loose leaf paper still hanging on for dear life:

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When I flip it over, she makes that exact point:

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I mean, are you noticing all of the details here? The total alignment to her book and what she is about. How she is thinking of everything, making it feel custom and personal. When you consider your own marketing and publicity efforts, avoid the cookie-cutter strategies. Where you are copying a copy of a copy of something that worked for someone five years ago.

Jess took a traditional idea — sending a promotional package — and infused it with generosity, and meaningful connections to her book. And it worked. Here I am writing about it. Here I am inspired by it. Here I am… a better person for having received this.

Here is the note (I’m sharing it because I didn’t feel it included anything super personal):

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Do you see what she is doing there? A couple things: making it feel personal and generous to start. But then: making the ask. Asking me to help support her book. That is so difficult for most writers to do, and I think it is important for you to see that. This is work. It requires effort. Don’t just assume people will support you. Ask!

So much of the work I do centers on the concept of Human-Centered Marketing, and of seeing each individual reader. Jess is truly seeing each person who is a part of her life, and is making them feel special.

Will Jess’s book be a huge bestseller? I don’t know. Has it already been making people feel seen and heard through the manner by which Jess is sharing? Definitely.

Whenever I share a post like this — celebrating the success of a writer — I often hear from others that it has discouraged them. They may tell me that they didn’t get a book deal with Matthew McConaughey; they weren’t hand selected to be a guest on one of the biggest podcasts in the US; they didn’t sign with a publisher who would create a beautiful book for them; they don’t have a budget for adorable pizza box gifts, and even if they did, they wouldn’t have anyone to send them to.

If you are feeling this way, I don’t want you to feel discouraged. I share these stories because I know and have worked with Renée, Amanda, and Jessica. They started where we all start: with an idea, a dream, and that sinking feeling that maybe no one will care. Then, day by day, they got to work, connecting what they create and why to real people, one by one.

What I am trying to share here are three people in the midst of their careers, having fun, and finding new opportunities. Is it all roses and sunshine? Probably not. I’m often in conversations with writers — including successful writers — who are wrangling with issues that feel harrowing, as if their entire career hangs in the balance. And these writers face closed doors more often than you would think. Yet, they persist with their work because they are passionate and focused.

It is an honor to work with writers. And if you are a writer… you are awesome. Keep going! You are my favorite kind of person: someone who has a voice, and will use it. Thank you for being here with me.

(And if you ever want to explore working with me, you can learn more here.)

Thanks!

-Dan