Shhhh. Twitter Gets Oh So Quiet on the Weekends.

Every weekend, something peculiar happens on Twitter: it gets really really quiet. I follow about 550 people on Twitter, and uring business hours on a weekday, I get dozens of updates every few minutes. When I’m away from Twitter for an hour, there are 100 new Tweets waiting for me.

Dan BlankThe weekend is another story. I can go a couple hours without checking Twitter, and come back to very few Tweets. Heck, it’s almost manageable!

So what does this tell me about Twitter? A few things:

  • Twitter is primarily used as a part of people’s careers. They are most active on it when sitting in front of their computers all day at work.
  • People tend to talk about interesting news and ideas on the weekdays. This is similar to how many blogs update daily on the weekdays, but don’t update at all on the weekends.
  • Yes, the people of Twitter have real lives, and are not always updating the world as to what they are eating and where they are going. They – thankfully – seem to reserve the weekend time for family, friends, and perhaps stepping away from screens.
  • Despite the many trends that have emerged, we are all not lifestreaming – constantly sharing every moment of our days. Even those I know who are very active on social media services have quiet periods, or obvious chunks of their lives that are rarely shared on sites like Twitter.
  • A social media strategy has balance. Yes, perhaps some people do check Twitter 20 times a day, but that those hours are often when doing so is most effective. These same people may not check at all after 6pm, and may take weekends and vacations off. There is an odd sense of balance here.

Mostly, it tells me that the weekends are an opportunity. I’ve noticed how TechCrunch will often try to sway the weekend discussion by releasing a big diatribe on a weekend. It usually isn’t related to breaking news either – because the vacuum of the weekend is a chance for someone to open up a new line of discussion.

Much like the many weekday trends (Follow Friday, etc), weekends on Twitter could turn into something else entirely for your community. New types of content, discussions or connections. How will you use this opportunity?

Opportunity often lies not in following what’s popular, but in looking for the gaps – discovering something no one else sees, and slowly shaping it into something of value.

Thanks!

-Dan

How HELPING Sets You Apart from the Competition

Several weeks back I talked about how the secret to social media success was CARING. Today, I want to share a story that illustrates this point. It comes from a successful entrepreneur who used it in the offline world, and it’s all so simple that it’s genius…

Dan BlankTodd Smith was recently interviewed on Mixergy.com, explaining his career. One story that really stuck out was how he succeeded in selling real estate.

Todd was a licensed realtor working at a well-established real estate agency. He was young, and needed to find houses to sell. To get listings, he focused his efforts on people who were determined to sell their own homes. These are called “For Sale By Owner” or FSBO homes.

Now, many realtors target FSBOs, cold calling again and again, trying to convince the owners to list their home with a realtor, instead of going off on their own.

But Todd did something different.

On the first day a homeowner listed their own house for sale without a realtor, Todd would give them a call. But instead of pounding them with a sales pitch, he offered to help. He would tell them that he wants to help them with their goal of selling their house without a realtor.

He offered them a thick ‘sales kit,’ which included a ton of information on how a homeowner can sell their own home. There were marketing tips, negotiation tips, sample contracts, etc.

But that wasn’t all. He told them that if they did receive an offer, he would gladly come over and write up the contract for free. To top it off – he would even give them “for sale by owner” signs to put out in their yard.

So what was in it for Todd? Three things:

  1. He was competing with other realtors to woo homeowners to list their houses with an agency. By helping homeowners with their goals, he stood out from the crowd.
  2. He didn’t pitch homeowners to list their houses with him, he instead asked for a referral if anyone they knew ever wanted to list their house with a realtor.
  3. Many homeowners fail at seller their own homes, and when they consider listing with a realtor – Todd would be their first choice since he was so familiar and so helpful.

You can listen to Todd tell this story in his own words at around minute 21:45 of this interview. What was the result of his efforts? He was voted into RE/MAX’s Hall of Fame at age 28.

So what can we learn from Todd’s experience? A few things:

  • He was different because he helped.
  • He put the needs and desires of others first.
  • He offered to help before anyone else, uncovering opportunity.
  • He built trust that might not pay off until much later, if ever.

Most people are not willing to do what it takes to be successful. They take the quickest line to their goal, and disregard anyone who doesn’t serve THEIR needs at the moment they want them to.

Todd took a different route. One that helped.

Thanks!

-Dan

The Secret to Achieving Your Goals Online: Perseverance

How do people succeed when building their brands online? That’s a question I’ve been researching. And I have to say, when I found the answer, it surprised me.

Regardless of your goals, there is one overarching secret to success. This is the secret talked about in the early part of the 20th century by Napoleon Hill, and it is the same secret that I keep hearing again and again from successful entrepreneurs and those who have build powerful personal or business brands online.

Dan BlankIn fact, it is so well proven, that it can hardly be called a secret.

So what is the secret to success? Perseverance.

I know, you were hoping I’d say something else. Something that was easier, something you could buy or obtain to ensure success. But that thing doesn’t exist. There is no get rich quick scheme or miracle diet. There is no SEO tactic, no newsletter list building secret, no WordPress plugin that delivers the value you are looking for. There is only perseverance.

So today, I want to talk a bit about what that means when considering how to succeed online while you are building your brand, creating great content, and connecting with your community.

The Difference Between Being Successful and Failing

If I had to explain the background of most successful people, it would go like this:

Fail. Fail. Fail. Fail. Fail. Fail. Fail. Succeed.

It’s funny, this is why the phrase ‘fail early and fail often’ has become so popular. Ironically, Jason Fried of 37 Signals has a rant about how much he hates that saying, yet attributes the huge success of his Signal vs. Noise blog to perseverance. Inherently, perseverance implies that you kept going, long after all signs pointed to failure.

So what separates those who succeed from those who don’t? Well, this is the background of most people who don’t succeed at their goals:

Fail. Fail. Fail. Fail. Fail. Fail.

Most people stop trying just short of reaching their goal. They get burned out, they refuse to innovate, they listen to all the voices around them that say “Why are you bothering, you are just embarrassing yourself.”

The Harder You Work, The Luckier You Get

I am a huge fan of the website Mixergy.com, where Andrew Warner interviews entrepreneurs 5 days a week. When explaining his own experiences in building his website, he said that if you go from posting 1 video a week to posting 5 videos a week, the gain in traffic and influence is not a five-fold increase. It is exponentially more.

Why is that? One reason is that when people know you are there every day, they make it a part of their routine to check you out. Another is that it increases the chances of serendipity – of luck – by at least 5 fold.

On the web, this can manifest itself in a number of ways: SEO, getting picked up in social media, having the right person see one of your videos, impressing a key influencer, etc. The chances of a 100 good things happening just increased exponentially.

How to Have Perseverance

So how do you ‘get’ perseverance? What’s the secret to the secret? There are lots of ways to describe it, but I will try to sum it up this way: a strong belief in a goal. That’s the secret to perseverance.

So why do people try, try, try and fail?

Lots of reasons. But oftentimes, it is because they didn’t believe strongly enough in the goal. Maybe it was a banana company who saw a market-opportunity by extending their brand into banana flavored gum, but found it difficult to succeed in that market, so they fail.

I’d bet that they failed a lot faster and a lot harder than say Billy Bob’s Gum Company – where Billy Bob is the owner and LOVES gum – thinks about gum every day, and is a third generation gum manufacturer. I would bet that Billy Bob would find a way to make banana flavored gum a success.

So, inherent in this is to not just have a goal, but truly CARE about it. What this often means is that it has to be about more than money.

Often, the goal needs to be so compelling, that it even supersedes basic human emotions. Consider how many of us approached a sport we weren’t good at when we were in elementary school. Let’s just say it was kickball, and you were bad at it. Chances are, you got up to the plate, all the other kids were staring at you, you gave it a good shot, and couldn’t even kick the ball. It was just embarrassing. In all likelihood, as much as you wanted to be good at kickball, you just shied away from it because it was so embarrassing.

Those who succeed, don’t shy away, they don’t stop.

Perseverance in Building Your Brand Online

If you are wondering why your blog is getting no traffic, why no one is following you on Twitter, why your ‘personal brand’ is failing to gain attention online, don’t look in the mirror and think that it’s just not in the cards for you. It is.

You can succeed in your goals of building your brand, product or service online. But only if you want it more than the next person. Only if you keep posting those blog entries even when it feels stupid. Only when you say to your self “I am failing so badly that it’s embarrassing, but you know what, I’m going to keep trying anyway.”

Thanks!

-Dan

Why Social Proof is the Key to Building Your Brand Online

Dan BlankI like to think that if someone creates a great piece of work, that the world discovers and spreads it simply because the quality of the work cannot go unnoticed. That greatness is an end unto itself.

But this usually isn’t the case. Great bands are not all discovered. Great paintings sit in attics, unappreciated. Great writing goes unread. Great blogs languish.

So when you approach your goals, sure, you need to create great content, a great product or a great service. But you also to know how to spread the word, and how to ensure it serves a community.

For a long time, we called this “marketing.” I put it in quotes because it tends to refer to traditional broadcast marketing – one person shouting at the crowd. And then shouting again. Then shouting again.

Sure, hat still works and to some degree, that will always work. But it tends to be expensive; And it tends to be hit or miss; And it tends to be annoying.

Oddly enough, Google works in a similar way to how real people work. Let’s consider how Google ranks search results. It doesn’t judge what’s best strictly in terms of ‘quality’ and send people to those web pages. Instead, Google measures a variety of factors, and it gives more credence to what’s popular – what has gained STATUS.

Google doesn’t have time to judge content based strictly on the quality of the content alone. And let’s face it, neither do most people. It’s too much effort and too subjective. So we look for social guideposts to trust. Google does this. People do this.

For example, we don’t all use Facebook because we each individually reviewed their feature set and judged it to be a superior social network. We simply went where our friends were. Likely, each and every one of us were holdouts in some way or another, unconvinced of Facebook’s value until ENOUGH social proof was there to bother joining.

When you create your blog, when you become active on Twitter, when you build your online brand (be it personal or business), consider the social proof that exists on the web pointing to your value.

How do you create your social proof? Well, it’s all about sharing, caring and helping.

Sounds silly, I know.

Some people feel that social proof is a numbers game. So they follow 20,000 people on Twitter, hoping that 20,000 people follow them back. They connect to anyone in the world on LinkedIn to show that they have 500+ connections. They feed the echo chamber of the blogosphere by posting the same news as everyone else.

But there are other ways that value REAL connection, REAL trust, REAL meaning that has little to do with numbers. Do you sleep soundly at night because you know you have 200 ‘friends,’ or because you know you have ONE friend that you can call anytime and who understands you?HUGE difference.

How do you build social proof? Well, you share, care and help. Here are some easy ways to consider:

  • Guest blogging: Offer to share your insights & value on someone else’s blog.
  • ReTweeting great content on Twitter.
  • Book speaking engagements & workshops at local & industry events.
  • Comment on people’s Facebook updates.
  • Become active on LinkedIn Answers (and similar forums).

So inherently, building your own social proof is all about building OTHER PEOPLE’S social proof. Funny how that works. I suppose it’s the whole karma thing.

So if you want to create a great blog, you don’t just show up everyday for your OWN blog, but you also show up for others all over the web. This is what services like StumbleUpon and Digg are created on also. Facebook’s new ‘like’ feature is based on this. The web is increasingly based on this.

When you are trying to build your brand and competencies online, consider the social proof you are building, not just the content alone.

So many writers don’t succeed because they banked on the quality of the writing alone – in isolation. The theory is that one day, SOMEONE will read their work, discover the value, and it will spread like wildfire.

And sure, some artists weren’t appreciated in their own time, but are now hailed as the great masters, whose work trades for millions of dollars. But don’t bank on that happening to you. Build your social proof by matching your great content with the ability to helping and sharing with others.

Thanks!

-Dan

Social Media Savvy in Just 15 Minutes a Day

Dan BlankThere is no one-size-fits-all way to leverage social media. So today, I want to look at three different ways you can build your brand online, depending on how much time and energy you have on a given day. The goal is to engage with social media without being swallowed by it.

  • Mild Pruning (15 Minutes a Day)
    You are swamped today, you have tons of things to do for work, for your family, for yourself. How do you keep ‘in the loop’ on social media – see and be seen, when your head and body are in 40 other placesThe bottom line is, you are going to have to let some things go when it comes to social media. So let’s focus on the most critical elements.Likely, you won’t have time today to share some incredible thought on Twitter. If you do, that’s awesome. But if not, then you goal should be to find one thing – JUST ONE – that someone you know shared that you think is outstanding.

    Now, be careful to not just go for the biggest story. If you are Tweeting about someone finding the new iPhone in a bar, you have to realize you are the billionth person Tweeting about that.

    Look for the piece of insight that is unique, helpful and intriguing. Something that wouldn’t normally hit everyone else’s radar.

    This is how you are helping ADD to the conversation, not just be another wall in the echo chamber.

    So how do you find this one incredible item with just 15 minutes in your day. I’ll give you two ideas.

    First: use a program like Tweetdeck, and create a ‘high priority’ list of people you follow. Just 10-20 people who are a bit off the radar or are incredible thinkers and sharers. The connectors of the world. If you have this column, their Tweets will be easy to follow.

    If you don’t have that kind of setup, then it’s just a matter of scanning Twitter with purpose. I follow 500+ people, and sometimes I have those days: zero time, but I still want to be present, and still want to share something cool.

    So this part is all about self-discipline. Scanning the people you follow on Twitter quickly, without getting distracted by anything but that one nugget of gold. Sometimes I will go through Twitter, and copy and paste multiple ‘potential’ ReTweets into a text file, and then decide which one is most valuable and unique only once I have found several candidates. This may sound silly, but sometimes I ReTweet too quickly, and realize that many many others have already Tweeted about the same story already. What this means is that the unique value of my Tweet would be diminished unless I chose something VERY helpful, but a bit off the radar.

  • Mid-Level Landscaping (1 Hour a Day)
    Perhaps you have a busy day, with a few meetings at work, a deadline coming up in three days, and the usual lot of email. But you know you will have little breaks throughout the day, enough time and space in your head to actively engage in social media – how do you do it most effectively?They key is to have specific goals and then chunk those goals into segmented blocks throughout your day.

    Some goals might be: monitor mentions of your company on social media; identify 5 new people who are interested in your field; create status updates yourself; push forward relationships via @replies, comments on blogs and forum updates; etc.

    For each of these, set priorities and a specific focus. If you know you can spend a single hour of time on social media today, create a schedule, perhaps something like this:

    30 minutes: 10am-10:30am to check status updates from all of your connections across social networks and send out one update on each yourself.
    15 minutes: 1:15pm-1:30pm to check status updates again and reply to people via @replies, comments, etc.
    15 minutes: 4:15pm-4:30pm to give one last check in on status updates and replies.

    In this example, we made a few choices. First, we are only focusing on business hours, which tends to be the time that many social networks are most active. Second, we created clear but simple goals and spread them out. It’s a mistake to think you can just write a blog post and share it in 30 minutes. Maybe you can, but you know what, maybe you can’t. Third, we combined listening & sharing, the two most important ways to use social media.

    This was a pretty simple example, but this structure really works wonders, and takes the pressure off of ‘keeping up with social media’ when you have a pretty full day with other priorities.

    The overall goal here is to: Be present on social media, but also be present in the rest of your life as well.

  • Full-On Gardening (2 Hours a Day)
    Whether it’s because you have a chunk of free time, or because you have a need to aggressively ‘be there’ in social media, you need to attack the day, ensuring that you connect and create as much as possible online. You are on a mission, you need to grow.Inherently, this is about LISTENING, and there are so many ways to do this. From reading Tweets of those you follow, to leveraging Twitter search, reading blogs, asking & answering questions on LinkedIn and uploading photos to Facebook. And heck, that could just be for starters.

    The danger here is that you can get lost in social media, and get to the end of your week having created nothing.

    Being active on social media can sometimes be akin to running on a treadmill and not getting anywhere.

    So you need to start the day with goals that are meaningful and measurable. For this step I will simply recommend the advice I shared yesterday:

    Creation before connection.

Overall, regardless of the time you have available, the goal is to engage, create and help. Whether you can focus on 1 great interaction per day, or 20, make sure that you are creating unique value for yourself and your community.

Thanks!

-Dan