Forming Creative Community. Exploring the Terrain Beyond the Limits of Social Media

Illustrator and writer Meera Lee Patel chatted with me recently about the value of having a creative community. For years, she worked alone on her craft in her apartment. But recently, she joined a shared studio space. This is how she describes the shift:

“It is the first time in my life that I have a creative community. The most valuable thing is not feeling alone. It’s helpful to have feedback, to not constantly be in my head, to be in the dark about what is standard, and not only be reading forums.”

“To have real life advice and really people who are willing to help and be generous with their time. It’s just brought a whole facet of joy to my life that I didn’t have.”

“Community is joy. It is happiness. I feel connected. I feel heard and seen. This community has been really healthy for me as a person. As a freelancer it has been great and nourishing and supportive, but I will say as a person, I feel a lot better off than I used to be.”

“I think that for other creative people out there who feel alone or frustrated with their work, I would just say, your not. If you can just reach out to people and build a community for yourself, it has been life-changing for me. I think it would be the same for others.”

As I listened to her words, I had something of a eureka moment. Because I have been obsessed with the idea of a creative community for awhile now. For the past few years, I have run more than a dozen Creative Shift Mastermind groups for writers and artists. The results I have seen are similar to what Meera describes above.

A writer who just went through a three month Mastermind with me summarized the experience this way:

“I thought I’d signed up for the Mastermind to get my career back on track. Seems like we’ve delved into getting my whole life onto a better track.” – Kimberli Bindschatel

Another framed it this way:

“In each of the last two Mastermind sessions I have gone through profound creative growth. I learned new things about myself, making experiential, intellectual and emotional connections that surprised me and enriched me.” – Simon Maple

And another talked about how it changed the way she sees the world:

“Dan’s Mastermind helped me look at the world, and my creative work, with an experimental mindset.” – Jan O’Hara

Did each of these people make clear progress on their creative work? Yes. But what all of these people indicate as well is that it enriched their lives in deeper ways.

More and more, I am doubling down on helping people feel a part of a creative community. Of connecting them to others, and in doing so, connecting them more deeply to their own creative work and personal fulfillment.

Yesterday I ran a small workshop, part of a series I have been doing called Studio Time. Here is a glimpse at some of the participants:

Even in that 1-day workshop, it was amazing how quickly the group came together and began supporting each other. The generosity and connection was immediate and consistent throughout the day. These people were in different corners of North America, from Canada to Florida, from the east coast to middle America. And here we are, forming a creative community.

This is a big part of the reason I have stopped teaching courses. I want everything I do to be about forging connections. I want to truly show up in the trenches with writers and artists every day. With the boom of online courses in the past 10 years, I feel something is often missing from them: true connection. A creative community. And to be honest, I don’t think shoving 1,000 people into a Facebook Group counts as a creative community. I’m not saying there can’t be value in a Facebook Group, I know many that are wonderful resources. But there are limits to what social media can provide when it comes to true connection and support. I want to explore the terrain beyond those limits.

I want to do more to help writers and artists make real progress with their craft, while feeling a part of something that supports them. The Creative Shift Mastermind and Studio Time workshops have been a good start, and I’m working hard to make them better and better.

What I would love to know from you is this: how could a creative community help you push forward with your creative vision? What would it have to bring into your life to get you to take a chance on joining it?

Please comment below or email me. That would mean a lot to me.
Thanks!
-Dan

P.S. You can hear my entire interview with Meera Lee Patel here. She shared so much wisdom, that I was just blown away.

Embracing Possibility: My Interview with Illustrator and Writer Meera Lee Patel

Meera Lee PatelIllustrator and writer Meera Lee Patel describes why she began painting soon after she began working a day job:

“I started painting as a way to find myself, as a way to remind myself of who I was when I was a little bit happier. Who I was when I was making things. When I started painting, I felt so connected to myself and felt connect to other living things, just by being somebody who was making something from nothing and putting it out in the world. I decided that is what I wanted to do.”

In my latest podcast interview, Meera and I dig into her journey as an artist, and how she made a profound creative shift to become a full-time artist and writer.

You can listen to the podcast by clicking ‘play’ below, or in the following places:

My Friend FearHer latest book, My Friend Fear, is an amazing work that turns fear into something beautiful.

In our discussion we cover some deeply important topics for any artist or writer:

  • The specific ways that her parents and her high school gave her permission to create, even as they also instilled a clear sense of responsibility.
  • How she devoted 40 hours per week to her craft, on top of her 40 hour per week day job. When I asked how she approached painting on the side, her answer was immediate: “”Aggressively. Super aggressively. I did not care about anything else. I worked all the time.”
  • She describes how she found clarity and focus, and the specific steps she took to invest in her craft, earn money for it, and try new things.
  • When success seemed distant and she considered giving up, this is how she stayed on track: “I always thought, ‘have I exhausted every possibility?’ There was always something I hadn’t tried. That meant there was always the possibility for me to try, so I always took that possibility, even when I didn’t want to.”
  • We discuss the importance of money to artists and writers. How she frames it: “Its really important to have a sustainable business so you can have the luxury and the freedom to not have to compromise your art.”
  • How she found success not through a big break, but many small moments of success: “I will say that nothing has ‘taken off.’ I have had small moments, but my whole trajectory has been very slow, very steady and very incremental. A lot of slow growth. That is frustrating as the person who is in it. It’s probably frustrating for listeners because nobody wants to hear that. But it is dependable to know that you can always take a tiny step forward each day each week and eventually you will be somewhere new because you took all of those small steps.”
  • How social media is both a wonderful gift, but also an incredible challenge. She describes how, the more successful she becomes, the more complex her relationship to social media is because there are so many expectations placed upon her. How she navigates it: “Social media is responsible for making me that accessible to the world. I’m realizing that I’m going to have to have the limits and boundaries if I’m going to keep making the work.”
  • When I asked her if she deals with comparisonitis, she replied, “It is an absolute daily struggle… You have to push it aside and make the work you want to make.”
  • She talks about the turning point for no longer ruling her life by fear. She says: “Being scared is not a good enough reason to do things.”

You can find Meera in the following places:

Her books:

As well as:
Her Etsy shop.
Her website: https://www.meeralee.com
Instagram: @merelymeeralee
Twitter: @meeralee
Facebook

Thank you!
-Dan

Take Back Your Attention: Jocelyn K. Glei on Finding More Creativity and Meaning in Your Daily Work

Today I speak with writer Jocelyn K. Glei about how digital media and technology has created a crisis for many writers and artists. Their days are spent running on the treadmill of digital and social media, chained to their computers and phones, and increasingly unable to break away in order to complete bigger creative projects.

You can listen to the entire conversation by clicking ‘play’ above, or via iTunes.

We dig into the neuroscience behind why this is, and she shares a wide range of strategies and tactics to take back your attention. Some of what we cover in our chat:

  • Technology is training us to keep refreshing our social media, email, news feeds in search of “what else?” and how it defines your mindset as an addiction for something new.
  • How brain chemistry encourages us to seek random rewards, and technology manipulates that.
  • The concept of “The ethics of attention”
  • Her experience going on an “information diet” where she not only gave up her phone, but any media consumption, including books, and no digital communication . Her summation, “My phone felt like a dead object.”
  • The importance of exercising ANY kind of control over your digital media use.
  • The crisis situation of frittering away time that could otherwise be used for meaningful activity or creation.
  • Addiction to short-term rewards of digital media vs long term rewards of creating.
  • How completion bias encourages us to focus more on email and short-term goals, rather than long-term creative projects. How using physical objects can help you stay focused on a long-term creative project
  • When analog tools are superior to digital in the creative process. Why we tend to default to digital.
  • How to break the cycle of addiction to your computer/phone for creative work by decoupling specific tasks.
  • Why self-management is a challenge in a rigid office culture. How the tiniest action to take control of how you work can rub others the wrong way.
  • How the challenge to self-manage is about articulating what you are doing and why you are doing it so you can control the workflow
  • The importance of learning how to be an advocate for yourself in terms of how you work best.

You can find Jocelyn in the following places:

http://jkglei.com
Hurry Slowy podcast: http://hurryslowly.co/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jkglei

Her books:

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https://www.instagram.com/DanBlank/
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In-Between Your Creative Vision

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I’ve been thinking about that place in-between. In-between your creative vision and your reality.

The thing about in-between is that you can see potential as easily as you can see failure. And perhaps most of all, you can see the status quo just continuing. This sense that you will spend a lifetime trying the same things and achieving the same mediocre results.

This is my desk in my studio:
Dan Blank

On the wall across from it, I hung photos of successful creators. These are writers, artists, and visionaries. I tried to choose photos of moments in-between. Moments when their greatness was still uncertain. Moments when they may have felt vulnerable or unsure.

Here is Fred Rogers in his college yearbook photo, and one of my favorite quotes from him:

Here is J.K. Rowling writing Harry Potter in a cafe:

Here is Walt Disney when he served in the Red Cross in 1918:

Here is designer Ray Eames working on one of her projects. So much of her process was about play as a part of finding solutions:

Then there is this article from 1974:

Why was the concert cancelled? It was going to be at a high school, but most of the students preferred to go to the beach that weekend. It’s easy to think that success for someone such as Springsteen is destiny. But that weekend in 1974, his show was cancelled because people weren’t interested.

Achieving greatness for each of these people was about showing up each day and giving it their best, even when it may have seemed like that wouldn’t be enough.

That is why I hung these photos in a place where I can look at them every day. So I can remember to focus on craft first. To have clarity in my creative vision. To work through the in-between.

The in-between can seem to last forever. For one of my friends, this week had nothing to do with in-between. Last Fall I wrote about my friend Jason Liles who is an actor. This week his new movie opens: Rampage, starring Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson. Jason plays George, the white albino gorilla who appears in all the movie posters, and who in the movie is The Rock’s best friend. Jason had to study with primatologists and he performed through motion capture. Here they are the other day at the premiere:

Jason Liles and The Rock

When I interviewed Jason (listen to the whole interview here!) he told me about the challenges he overcame and how he broke into Hollywood. Highlights from the interview include:

  • He dealt with anxiety and panic attacks in middle school, high school and college. He actually had to leave college because of the the anxiety. Seeing how his entire line of work is about performing in front of an audience, this is astounding to me.
  • When he was just starting out, the director of theater program at a big school told Jason flat out, “You are too tall for film. Forget about it.” Jason is 6′ 9″ tall. How did he move ahead after such bad advice? He went to Broadway shows, waited outside the stage door and ask world famous actors such as Jame Gandolfini, Susan Sarandon, Geoffrey Rush, Jeff Daniels, and others: “Am I too tall for film?” Every one of them said, “Not at all. Just do it.” As it turns out, Jason’s height is a primary factor that is getting him so many of his roles.
  • He has this uncanny ability to spot and approach famous actors on the street and ask them for advice. An example, “Bryan Cranston talked for about 20 minutes giving me advice when I bumped into him in Central Park with his wife, because he knew I was a young actor.” He has done this with Michael Fassbender, Daniel Day Lewis, and others as well. To me, this was a reminder to use the opportunities that are all around you. Jason didn’t have any special access, and he didn’t let himself be constrained by perceived “rules” that you can’t approach people and ask them a question.
  • His first job was as a stand-in. Later on this, same company got him his his spot in Men in Black III as well as his first commercial. I can imagine Jason saying “no” to a stand-in role because it is too small. But if he had, he never would have gotten Men in Black III, never would have established his relationships with people who were critical to future roles in his career.
  • How he developed relationships in the film industry with this strategy: “I would do anything to get experience: student films, non-paying plays — anything.”
  • The thing that made all the difference for him: “The biggest thing that I did was to get to know people in the creature shops. Sometimes, the creature shops would be responsible for identifying the actor to play specific roles. Getting to know them, I can bypass producers, casting directors, and others. I learned who all the shops are, and keep in touch with them.” He encourages more people need to get involved in the business side of their creative profession. How, in his field, you can be an amazing actor who never gets work, because you never learn about how to make the right connections. Or vice versa, you can be a mediocre actor who always gets work because you understand how the business operates.
  • He got a recent big movie role by cold calling a “creature shop” in Hollywood. He tells the story: “They said they were too busy, call back in a couple months. Then the next week, on a Saturday, they called and asked what my availability was for the next four months, and if I could come in Monday morning. They had no idea who I was the week before. I said I was definitely free, because I was working at Outback Steakhouse full time when this happened.”

Jason reminds me that success often comes from a mixture of craft and gumption. He created opportunities for himself by picking up the phone, saying ‘yes’ to small jobs, and by simply caring about those around him.

If you are in-between and could use any kind of support or advice, email me and let me know how I can help. I know that sometimes, the difference between feeling lost and found can depend on just a few encouraging words of advice.

Thanks.
-Dan

The Return of Blogging

I’ve noticed something being talked about by some very successful writers and artists: blogging. Does that sound weird? As if I’m predicting the return of the pager and fax machine. Today I want to talk about how deep, long-term projects like blogs are being talked about as the solution to social media burnout that many people I know are experiencing.

Artist Jake Parker has put a renewed focused on his blog. He explains why:

“It was incredible to revisit old artwork and be reminded of my thought process back then. I may have gotten a little nostalgic, but more so I was reminded of what an engaging medium blogging is to to tackle subjects and share process.”

“I began to wonder why I ever abandoned my blog.”

“Then it hit me, I stopped blogging around the time I started using Instagram.”

“I exchanged the ease and glitz of social media for my lame-o blog that didn’t even show how many followers I had, and couldn’t tell me if people liked my post or not.”

“Social media has been great, and there’s a bah-jillion artists on there to follow. But I’ve been feeling this urge to engage in deeper ways with people online that I’m not getting that with tweets, grams, and status updates.”

When I do research for my podcast interviews, it is amazing to see the depth of material in blogs. For instance, artist Rebecca Green continues to blog, which she began years ago.

On her Instagram, it is easy to be distracted by the numbers: her 230,000+ followers and thousands of likes on each post. But on her blog, you see the complexity of her creative process, and the nuances of her creative vision.

Elise Blaha Cripe has cataloged her creative process on her blog for more than 12 years. This adds up to more than 3,000 posts. You can track, week by week her journey from college to running her own successful small business. In the process, you join her in every creative project. It’s astounding.

Gretchen Rubin wrote recently, “My blog changed my life,” as she celebrated 12 years of blogging. She too has published more than 3,000 posts.

I’ve had my own blog since August 2006, and have posted to it at least once a week since then. That is a 12 year repository of my writing, my thoughts, that I have collected, and is public for others to see. It is truly a body of work.

Why do I see more successful writers and artists talking about blogging again? Perhaps because:

  • You gain a deeper understanding of your craft by documenting it. In doing so, you now have a repository of ideas that you can look back on and be inspired by.
  • Publishing your work — even your work in progress — helps you become better at your craft. Comedians can’t work out material in a room alone in front of a mirror for very long. They have to test material in front of an audience. For a writer or audience who doesn’t want to “play to the crowd,” I will clarify that this is not about pandering to the crowd. Sharing your process forces you to look at it more clearly, and consider how your writing or art is only complete when it moves someone.
  • Blogging is an incredible tool by which to show your own creative growth. In my Creative Shift Mastermind, we focus a lot on assessing progress because too often, people overlook growth. They miss major milestones because they are too busy worrying about something. But when you look back on a blog archive, on the history of your own work, you are forced to confront your own growth.
  • Likewise, I think there is a wonderful reason to allow others to experience this growth. For the creators I mentioned above, I understood them and their work better because I could go back 10+ years to experience it. This made our interview enormously richer.
  • You should own the connection to your audience, instead of relying entirely on a social network. This week I published my interview with artist and designer Kelli Anderson, and a fascinating quote is this: “If Instagram disappears, we are all in trouble. There are so many people I know who have Instagram-based careers.” What she means is that is their entire portfolio, online presence, and connection point to an audience is mostly through Instagram.

But let’s not forget another primary reason that blogging is being talked about more and more:
social media overwhelm. Many writers and artists feel a sense of frustration that other companies such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Google, control who sees their status updates. The creator is reliant on algorithms and business practices that they can’t control. By nature, these networks tend to reward popular posts, not deep content.

But to create something of value, it requires you to go deep.

How are you creating ways for others to experience your craft with the depth that it deserves? Is it a blog? A podcast? Something else? Let me know.

Thanks.
-Dan