Embracing Possibility: My Interview with Illustrator and Writer Meera Lee Patel

Meera Lee PatelIllustrator and writer Meera Lee Patel describes why she began painting soon after she began working a day job:

“I started painting as a way to find myself, as a way to remind myself of who I was when I was a little bit happier. Who I was when I was making things. When I started painting, I felt so connected to myself and felt connect to other living things, just by being somebody who was making something from nothing and putting it out in the world. I decided that is what I wanted to do.”

In my latest podcast interview, Meera and I dig into her journey as an artist, and how she made a profound creative shift to become a full-time artist and writer.

You can listen to the podcast by clicking ‘play’ below, or in the following places:

My Friend FearHer latest book, My Friend Fear, is an amazing work that turns fear into something beautiful.

In our discussion we cover some deeply important topics for any artist or writer:

  • The specific ways that her parents and her high school gave her permission to create, even as they also instilled a clear sense of responsibility.
  • How she devoted 40 hours per week to her craft, on top of her 40 hour per week day job. When I asked how she approached painting on the side, her answer was immediate: “”Aggressively. Super aggressively. I did not care about anything else. I worked all the time.”
  • She describes how she found clarity and focus, and the specific steps she took to invest in her craft, earn money for it, and try new things.
  • When success seemed distant and she considered giving up, this is how she stayed on track: “I always thought, ‘have I exhausted every possibility?’ There was always something I hadn’t tried. That meant there was always the possibility for me to try, so I always took that possibility, even when I didn’t want to.”
  • We discuss the importance of money to artists and writers. How she frames it: “Its really important to have a sustainable business so you can have the luxury and the freedom to not have to compromise your art.”
  • How she found success not through a big break, but many small moments of success: “I will say that nothing has ‘taken off.’ I have had small moments, but my whole trajectory has been very slow, very steady and very incremental. A lot of slow growth. That is frustrating as the person who is in it. It’s probably frustrating for listeners because nobody wants to hear that. But it is dependable to know that you can always take a tiny step forward each day each week and eventually you will be somewhere new because you took all of those small steps.”
  • How social media is both a wonderful gift, but also an incredible challenge. She describes how, the more successful she becomes, the more complex her relationship to social media is because there are so many expectations placed upon her. How she navigates it: “Social media is responsible for making me that accessible to the world. I’m realizing that I’m going to have to have the limits and boundaries if I’m going to keep making the work.”
  • When I asked her if she deals with comparisonitis, she replied, “It is an absolute daily struggle… You have to push it aside and make the work you want to make.”
  • She talks about the turning point for no longer ruling her life by fear. She says: “Being scared is not a good enough reason to do things.”

You can find Meera in the following places:

Her books:

As well as:
Her Etsy shop.
Her website: https://www.meeralee.com
Instagram: @merelymeeralee
Twitter: @meeralee
Facebook

Thank you!
-Dan

Take Back Your Attention: Jocelyn K. Glei on Finding More Creativity and Meaning in Your Daily Work

Today I speak with writer Jocelyn K. Glei about how digital media and technology has created a crisis for many writers and artists. Their days are spent running on the treadmill of digital and social media, chained to their computers and phones, and increasingly unable to break away in order to complete bigger creative projects.

You can listen to the entire conversation by clicking ‘play’ above, or via iTunes.

We dig into the neuroscience behind why this is, and she shares a wide range of strategies and tactics to take back your attention. Some of what we cover in our chat:

  • Technology is training us to keep refreshing our social media, email, news feeds in search of “what else?” and how it defines your mindset as an addiction for something new.
  • How brain chemistry encourages us to seek random rewards, and technology manipulates that.
  • The concept of “The ethics of attention”
  • Her experience going on an “information diet” where she not only gave up her phone, but any media consumption, including books, and no digital communication . Her summation, “My phone felt like a dead object.”
  • The importance of exercising ANY kind of control over your digital media use.
  • The crisis situation of frittering away time that could otherwise be used for meaningful activity or creation.
  • Addiction to short-term rewards of digital media vs long term rewards of creating.
  • How completion bias encourages us to focus more on email and short-term goals, rather than long-term creative projects. How using physical objects can help you stay focused on a long-term creative project
  • When analog tools are superior to digital in the creative process. Why we tend to default to digital.
  • How to break the cycle of addiction to your computer/phone for creative work by decoupling specific tasks.
  • Why self-management is a challenge in a rigid office culture. How the tiniest action to take control of how you work can rub others the wrong way.
  • How the challenge to self-manage is about articulating what you are doing and why you are doing it so you can control the workflow
  • The importance of learning how to be an advocate for yourself in terms of how you work best.

You can find Jocelyn in the following places:

http://jkglei.com
Hurry Slowy podcast: http://hurryslowly.co/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jkglei

Her books:

You can find Dan Blank at:
https://wegrowmedia.com
Be the Gateway: http://a.co/evyrsjw
https://www.instagram.com/DanBlank/
https://twitter.com/danblank 

How Creative Side-Projects Led to a Career in Art and Design, with Kelli Anderson


In this podcast, I chat with Brooklyn-based artist and designer, Kelli Anderson. We dig into

  • The value of stubbornness in the creative process
  • How her career path had her quit a safe full-time job for a part-time job that allowed her to do creative side-project with the rest of her time
  • The importance of collaboration in developing your craft and developing an audience
  • The power of communication: when you are 100% clear on what you love and you let people know, it empowers them to help you get it
  • How she gained her social media following of 60,000 followers from sharing innovative projects like a paper record player
  • Why she is so enamored by analog, lo-fi, and mechanical things
  • How she has constructed her life around this: artistic growth is not always about financial growth
  • The importance of keeping a sketchbook

You can find Kelli in the following places:

http://kellianderson.com

https://www.instagram.com/kellianderson/

The Business of Being a Writer, My Interview with Jane Friedman

Today I’m excited to share my interview with author and publishing expert Jane Friedman. In our discussion, we dig into the nuts and bolts on how to earn a living as a writer.

We frame the conversation around her new book, The Business of Being a Writer, which shatters romantic assumptions around publishing, but then arms you with practical advice on how to develop your career.

We dig into:

  • The dream that writers have and how it matches to reality.
  • The business side of what it is like working with agents and publishers.
  • How agents and publishers earn money (and how much they earn)
  • Why great work simply rise to the top.
  • The effort it takes to market a book and reach readers.
  • The importance to get outside of your comfort zone to ensure your book finds its audience.
  • …and so much more!

We also explore Jane’s own career path. Okay, perhaps my favorite quote from our discussion is how she expressed the challenge of selling a book in the age of distraction:

“It’s so easy to not read a book”

You can listen to the podcast by clicking ‘play’ below, or in the following places:

You can find Janes book here: The Business of Being a Writer

You can find her online in the following places:
https://www.janefriedman.com
https://twitter.com/janefriedman
https://www.facebook.com/jane.friedman

Social Anxiety and Sharing Your Creative Work. An interview with Ellen Hendriksen, PhD

In my latest podcast, I interview psychologist Ellen Hendriksen, who helps millions calm their anxiety and be their authentic selves. In our chat, we dig into topics that writers and artists constantly struggle with, including:

  • Impostors Syndrome
  • Permission to create
  • Comparison to others
  • Seeking validation
  • Sharing your work publicly
  • Collaboration
  • Entrepreneurship

We talk about her new book, How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety, which Susan Cain calls “a groundbreaking roadmap to finally being your true, authentic self.”

Click ‘play’ above to listen, or check out the episode on iTunes.

About Ellen:
Ellen Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist who helps millions calm their anxiety and be their authentic selves through her award-winning Savvy Psychologist podcast, which has been downloaded over 5 million times, and in her clinic at Boston University’s Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders (CARD). Her scientifically-based, zero-judgment approach is regularly featured in Psychology Today, Scientific American, Huffington Post, Business Insider, Quiet Revolution, and many other media outlets.